Traders Psych Post --02feb2012--Why Are We Reluctant To Set Goals?

 

Why Are We Reluctant To Set Goals?

Blessed are those who aim for nothing for they shall not be disappointed.
Abdul Hakim Shaikh

All of us definitely knows that, how important it is to set a goal, but despite its importance and usefulness, many of us just fail to set a goal, today we will explore some pointers as to what could be the possible reasons to do so? Check to see what applies to you and correct them by taking appropriate measures before its too late!!!

What are the motivators which would have us rather not set goals? 

Rebel at heart : If you have an issue with authority you will not even be able to submit to setting your own priorities let alone somebody else's. 

Discipline : Setting goals means you can no longer do as you please. You have to do what your goals tell you to do - a sobering thought for some. 

Lack of accountability : Ignoring goals which do not perform does not make them go away. They need to be re-negotiated with the new evidence at hand. 

Fear of failure : The crushing sense of defeat. It is less painful to miss out on a good outcome than to be hurt again - so we tell ourselves. 

Lack of vision : The new goal does not have a framework to fit into. Goals do not live in isolation but either compete with each other or support each other. 

Lack of commitment : The ability to say no to things outside our vision. We are not sold out enough on the expected outcome to warrant a change of habits. 

Effort : Some people get out of bed because they have to - others get out of bed because they want to embrace what a new day has to offer.

Unable to dream : Unless you can clearly see your goal in your mind you will not be motivated to go after it. 

Isolation : Lack of contacts, role models, worthwhile information to inspire. We are social animals and there are things we cannot do on our own. Bad company corrupts character. Lack of resources : Goals require time or money or both. Reallocating your time and finances clearly tells what your priorities are. Which goal has the best chance to unlock your horizon for other goals to follow through? 

Lack of self-esteem : Some people wrongly think they are undeserving and would not pat themselves on the back when they reach a given milestone. This is a critical step not to be missed because it will give you the fuel to keep on going. 

Lack of strategy : Setting goals without figuring out how to reach them is like embarking on a journey without a map. 

Unbelief : "I tried that before and it didn't work!" This kind of self-talk will cause you to miss out on your potential. What you believe about yourself will determine what you will do about your life.