Monday 28 March 2016

Importance of Patience as a mother


A house that never stays clean and children who have a mind of their own. What can you do to stay calm?

You have finally finished the dishes and the kitchen looks tidy, but the surprise waiting for you in the living room raises your blood pressure so much that you lose control over yourself.
The floor you wiped just moments ago is littered with toys, biscuit pieces and juice spilled all over.

Being a mother, the biggest challenge often faced is being patient at so many such incidents in everyday life and I believe it’s the same with you if you are reading this as a mother

Let's  admit: as a mother you loose cool in most of the cases!

For a mother and a home maker, patience is extremely important since Allah has mentioned it several times in the Qur’an and the rewards for it really quite tempting.

وَاصْبِرُوا ۚ إِنَّ اللَّـهَ مَعَ الصَّابِرِينَ
and be patient. Indeed, Allah is with the patient.
(Qur’an 8:46)

إِلَّا الَّذِينَ صَبَرُوا وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ أُولَـٰئِكَ لَهُم مَّغْفِرَةٌ وَأَجْرٌ كَبِيرٌ
Except for those who are patient and do righteous deeds; those will have forgiveness and great reward.
(Qur’an 11:11)

Many more such verses enhance the importance of patience.

As Muslimah Mummies, it is very clear to us that being patient is not just about controlling our anger in order to be a good mother, but firstly it is to obey Allah.
Here are some smart tactics to save yourself from regrets:
🎈Absorb the fact that your kids are an amanah from Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى). This will help you be extra cautious when you are dealing with them.
🎈Understand and keep reminding yourself that there are a whole lot of women doing whatever they can in order to conceive. Being a mother is a gift.
🎈If we are able to live with and take care of our children then we should be more grateful because there are so many mothers who are separated from their little sweethearts for various reasons.
🎈Patiently taking care of little children 24*7 is no easy task. But we can try and with Allah’s help nothing is impossible. Don’t  stop making dua.
🎈أعوذ بالله من الشيطان الرجيم (I seek refuge with Allah from
the accursed Shaitaan) is the best dua to stop shaitaan from attacking you.
🎈Health issues or hormonal imbalances can result in physical and mental stress. Keeping a helper or ordering in from a restaurant will definitely give you time to relax.
🎈Managing more than two or three toddlers is real work. If you end up shouting or smacking, don’t hesitate to apologise. A sorry card or simply a tight hug can do wonders, but make sure you tell them you were hurt by their actions.
🎈Be what you want your child to be. They copy what they see.
🎈Most of us must have read the statement : “Excuse the mess, we are making memories”. Yes you are. Treasure the moments.
🎈But also remember: Less mess less stress. To avoid mess create a play area for kids so that the toys stop finding other places to hide.
🎈Children grow up so quickly and with each passing year they become more independent. The present phase of life is passing away so try to grab it in the most beautiful manner.
🎈Children are children. Let them be. Tidying up is essential but don’t get obsessed to the extent that you restrict your children from being themselves.
🎈When you find it difficult to stay patient remind yourself of single mothers or a mother taking care of a disabled child. Our test of patience is nothing compared to theirs.

So, the next time you see spilt water, cushions on the floor or the sofa being used as a trampoline, take a deep breath and say Alhamdullilah.
A final note:
وَالْمَلَائِكَةُ يَدْخُلُونَ عَلَيْهِم مِّن كُلِّ بَابٍ
سَلَامٌ عَلَيْكُم بِمَا صَبَرْتُمْ ۚ فَنِعْمَ عُقْبَى الدَّارِ
… And the angels will enter upon them from every gate, [saying],
“Peace be upon you for what you patiently endured. And excellent is the final home.”
(Qur’an 13:23-24)
What more do we want?
I pray that every mother be able to make an effort to be more patient. آمين

Friday 4 March 2016

Aazadi Desh Mein......

A brilliant speech by KanhaiyaKumar.. "Desh SE azaadi nahi, desh MEIN azaadi"
Keep it up JNU !

Kanhaiya Kumar Rocks.
Jiyo mere Lal Jiyo

Funny how PM Modi spoke like a student in Parliament and a student KanhaiyaKumar spoke like a PM of any country on same day.,When KanhaiyaKumar finished his Speech inJNU, Social media had a flood of thought for him some chosen which I came is following
🏹Smriti Irani to modi-
Ham tumhare liye itne gaddhe khodenge k confuse ho jaoge kin gaddho ko bhare or kinme gire
🏹On a Day when PM Modi made a Speech in Parliament after ages
 KanhaiyaKumar Trends Worldwide
Thc BJP, this denotes ur Failure
🏹The Nation shall be thankful to ABVP, Modi and other sanghis that they have introduced a revolutionary KanhaiyaKumar to the World 😂 (Bhakt👉😩😭😩)
🏹The biggest success of Make in india is making KanhaiyaKumar the biggest hero!! Kudos Modiji, you have done it.
>Congrats Modiji
U have achieved the unexpected
By turning all the youth of india against you.
Slow claps.

>घाट पर खड़े पुकारें मोदी भैया,
मैंने क्या बिगाड़ा है गंगा मैया,
क्यों बिछाये काँटों की सैया,
कभी जशोदा, कभी कन्हैया।
>65 साल कि उम्र मे भी Narendramodi जी की जबान ही चल रही है,बुध्दि नही l
Ek taraf Jashoda, ek taraf Kanhaiya. Bechara kare to kya kare.
>भक्तों की एक और दिक्कत है, कन्हैया के नाम के साथ गाली भी नही दे सकते। 🙈🙈
कन्हैया ने आज अपना नाम सार्थक कर दिया

🏹Congratulations BJP for your Stupidity. Nobody knew who Kanhaiya was till 1 Month Back. Now whatever he speaks is News and is being hailed






Why Kanhaiya Kumar's Speech Is International News:
http://www.ndtv.com/opinion/what-made-kanhaiya-kumars-speech-spectacular-1283984
Full Speech: Kanhaiya Kumar, Out On Bail, Speaks Of 'Azadi' On JNU Campus - http://www.ndtv.com/india-news/full-speech-kanhaiya-kumar-out-on-bail-speaks-of-azadi-on-jnu-campus-1283740?via=whatsapp

http://indianexpress.com/article/opinion/columns/kanhaiya-kumar-speech-jnu-row-is-this-sedition/

Assembly Elections 2016

5-state assembly poll dates announced; results on May 19:
The Election Commission on Friday announced the much-awaited election schedule for West Bengal, Tamil Nadu, Kerala, Assam and the Union Territory of Puducherry.


234-seat Tamil Nadu assembly election dates (1 phase):
Issue of notification: April 27
Last Date: April 29
Scrutiny: April 30
Last date for withdrawal: May 2
Date of Poll: May 16


294-seat West Bengal assembly election dates (6 phases):
Phase 1: 18 seats
Issue of notification: March 11
Last Date: March 18
Scrutiny: March 19
Last date for withdrawal: March 21
Date of Poll: April 4 & 11 (Polling to be held on two days in this phase)
Phase 2: 56 seats
Issue of notification: March 22
Last Date: March 29
Scrutiny: March 30
Last date for withdrawal: April 1
Date of Poll: April 17
Phase 3: 62 seats
Issue of notification: March 28
Last Date: March 4
Scrutiny: April 5
Last date for withdrawal: April 1
Date of Poll: April 21
Phase 4: 49 seats
Issue of notification: April 1
Last Date: April 8
Scrutiny: April 9
Last date for withdrawal: April 11
Date of Poll: April 25
Phase 5: 53 seats
Issue of notification: April 4
Last Date: April 11
Scrutiny: April 12
Last date for withdrawal: April 16
Date of Poll: April 30
Phase 6: 25 seats
Issue of notification: April 7
Last Date: April 18
Scrutiny: April 19
Last date for withdrawal: April 21
Date of Poll: May 5
140-seat Kerala assembly election dates (1 phase):
Issue of notification: April 22
Last Date: April 29
Scrutiny: April 30
Last date for withdrawal: May 2
Date of Poll: May 16
126-seat Assam assembly election dates (2 phases):
1st phase: 65 seats
Issue of notification: March 11
Last Date: March 18
Scrutiny: March 19
Last date for withdrawal: March 21
Date of Poll: April 4
2nd phase: 61 seatsIssue of notification: March 14
Last Date for nomination: March 21
Scrutiny: March 22
Last date for withdrawal: March 26
Date of Poll: April 11
30-seat Puducherry election dates (1 phase):
Issue of notification: April 22
Last Date: April 29
Scrutiny: April 30
Last date for withdrawal: May 2
Date of Poll: May 16


Counting of votes will be taken up on May 19.

Thursday 3 March 2016

Spare the universities, please!

By Dr Mohammad Manzoor Alam

Over the last few months it has become quite evident that the NDA government at the Centre is hostile to the life of the mind that universities signify. The government’s thinking on the subject is an extension of the Sangh’s thinking, like in other area of life. The government seems to represent the RSS, not the people of India.

From the very beginning, the Sangh has been hostile to the Jawaharlal Nehru University (JNU) at Delhi because of its Left-liberal orientation. The university has always been on the target of the Sangh as an article published recently (and quoted by supporters of JNU) in the RSS mouthpiece Panchjanya amply demonstrates.

The government has unleashed a reign of terror against a number of JNU students, including the students’ union president Kanhaiya Kumar, on flimsy charges. The students have been booked under charge of sedition, a ridiculous colonial law meant to intimidate freedom-loving Indians. Already the Supreme Court has, in its great wisdom, read down the law, which is least likely to persuade judges to give the students any harsh punishment.

Another unbecoming aspect of this petty-minded dispute on part of the state is its initial attempt to frame the students on the charge of working on the orders of Hafiz Sayeed of LeT, a terrorist organisation based in Pakistan. The most ludicrous part of this is that a person no less than India’s home minister publicly announced that the students had been working on the orders of Hafiz Sayeed. The government had to face embarrassment when it had to, again publicly, retract and clarify that the Sayeed angle was a concoction.

This government is given to making exaggerated claims and wild allegations. Like all other Sanghis, government ministers do not hesitate before calling somebody “anti-national”. Being called an “anti-national” is a serious allegation which nobody should level against anyone without sufficient proof. What face and what credibility the government has left after its wild Hafiz Sayeed allegation? No wonder that Congress leader Rahul Gandhi consoled a huge gathering of agitated JNU students saying, “No, you are not anti-national. Those who call you so are anti-national”. If the Hafiz Sayeed allegation is a concoction, what is the proof that the sedition charge too is not cooked up?

If such serious and false charges can be publicly levelled against the students at such high level of government, then the police are surely going to be brutal with the students and chances of terrible torture in police custody are pretty high as policemen are known to torture and kill people uncomfortable to governments to curry favour and get promotion. We are deeply concerned about the wellbeing of students targeted by the police.

Meanwhile, the targeted students have circulated a video in which ABVP (Akhil Bhartiya Vidyarthi Parishad, student wing of RSS) students are shown shouting pro-Pakistan and pro-Kashmir Azadi slogans. They have also made the video available to leaders of AAP, the party that runs Delhi government. The RSS is known to be an expert in such tricks, JNU students have been telling people who care to listen.

They have cited some strange bomb blast cases. When some Muslims accused in some bomb blast cases were to get bail in court cases, light-intensity bombs were set off in the town where the case was being heard, a day or two before the bail plea hearing. In such cases the bail plea was invariably rejected. Their tactics came to light and stopped) after Hindutva terrorists were nabbed by Hemant Karkare’s team. These bail-preventing blasts were the handiwork of Sangh terrorists. Such tactic comes easy to RSS-trained persons.

That the slogan-shouting mischief could really be the doing of ABVP is indicated by the fact that in recent years at several places Sangh men were killed trying to make bombs. Kurtas, pyjamas, and skull caps were found at the sites along with false beards. The idea was to attack Muslim sites in “Muslim dress”, complete with flowing heards, so that the deed could be attributed to Muslim terrorists. For years India’s official position was that Pakistan’s ISI bombed the Samjhauta Express, killing dozens of Muslim travellers to Pakistan, who included both Indians and Pakistanis. This case too, was unearthed by Karkare as the handiwork of Hindutva terrorists.

The past record of Sangh indicates that the JNU students’ claims could be true. The attack on JNU has galvanised Indian universities into a protest mode. Four hundred top universities of the world, including Harvard and Yale, have declared solidarity with JNU and demanded release of Kanhaiya Kumar and dropping of all charges.

Meanwhile, Sangh men have declared that 18 universities in India are on their hit list. The way they have orchestrated the forced suicide of Rohith Vemula at Hyderabad Central University is an indication of to what extent they can go. Vemula was the sixth Dalit student in a series forced to kill themselves by a casteist and communal ideology.

The Centre has also opened a decided issue: it has sought to end the minority character of Aligarh Muslim University, Aligarh, and Jamia Millia Islamia, New Delhi, in a most ill-advised manner. Nobody knows whether these two Muslim universities are among the 18 universities on target, or whether they are being targeted separately.

This unnecessary turmoil has taken up all the available space for national news. At least temporarily, this is good for the Central government, because it distracts people and they have no time to ask it what it has done for the country. The fact is that the government performance has been extremely poor.

Martin Crowe



New Zealand batting legend passes away after a long battle with cancer

Martin Crowe, the former New Zealand batting captain, passed away on Thursday (March 3) at the age of 53 after a long battle with cancer.

Crowe played 77 Tests and 143 One-Day Internationals to end his career with 10,148 runs to his name. He led New Zealand in the World Cup in 1992 and helped the team reach the semifinal. Crowe was loved and respected by everyone in the cricketing fraternity and wasknown as someone who changed New Zealand cricket for the better.

A sad and tragic day for world cricket as we lose a great gentleman and gifted cricketer who graced the cricketing landscape during the 80s and early 90s. I had the good fortune of watching some of Martin Crowe's innings but the one that will forever be etched in my mind was the innings he played one early morning at Auckland in the 1992 World Cup match against Australia. Martin Crowe scored exactly 100 not out, and what I recall from that innings are his gorgeous cover drives with a minimal of backlift, and caressing the ball through the covers and midoff. Martin played 77 Tests for New Zealand and along with Richard Hadlee was instrumental in putting up New Zealand as a strong force in world cricket, no longer the poor cousins of Australia. I also loved reading Martin Crowe's splendid and educative articles


He was first chosen against Australia, aged 19. He was not ready. It hurt him. Sometimes it's said that young players are toughened up by being blooded early, experiencing failure and fighting back. Martin would not have agreed. Strong emotions and deep anxieties lay beneath the surface confidence. He was quick to judge others as "not good enough", not because he did not know what it was to struggle but because he did. The world he later hugged to his breast he kept then at 22 yards' length, and it worked: after 13 Tests, he averaged only 21; across the decade in which he was New Zealand's first and best hope, he averaged in the mid-50s.
Martin's love of cricket was fathomless: so passionate he needed to break from it from time to time; so profound he always found his way back to the fold. His great theme in the last while was anger and ill-feeling on the cricket field. The world was so full of it; why could cricket not provide some sort of refuge, a better example? In the last messages we exchanged, he was playful, funny, happily watching the game, even though his physical presence was entering the past tense. That invincible spirit endures.


http://www.cricbuzz.com/cricket-news/78391/champion-hero-friend-twitter-reacts-to-the-passing-away-of-former-new-zealand-cricket-captain-martin-crowe