Tuesday, 29 August 2023

Saturday, 26 August 2023

The darkest side of HUMANITY . - Tripta Tyagi-

 This woman is seriously sick mentally. Such people should not be allowed around children. Let alone being a teacher.

#ArrestTriptaTyagi The darkest side of HUMANITY .
By law, the police does NOT require a complaint from the child's father/family to register an FIR. A cognizable offense has been disclosed and an immediate FIR MUST be filed. This cancer of communal poison has spread to a point where students are not safe even from their teachers.
Just HOW MUCH hate before we wake up to reality - now its not a question of who will win elections - now its the question of who will allow for this nation to be destroyed ...





Friday, 21 July 2023

بچوں کی تربیت کے حوالے سے کرنے کے کاموں میں آج بس یہ چھوٹی سی لسٹ!

بچوں کی تربیت کے حوالے سے کرنے کے کاموں میں آج بس یہ چھوٹی سی لسٹ! 

گلے لگانا:
کہیں ایک ریسرچ میں پڑھا تھا کہ انسان کو دن میں کم از کم آٹھ بار hug کی ضرورت ہوتی ہے۔ اپنی تو چلیں چھوڑیئے لیکن اپنے بچوں کی اس ضرورت کا خیال کریں۔ میرے جیسی ماں کو ہر پونے گھنٹے کا الارم لگانا پڑتا ہے تا کہ کام میں لگ کر بھول نہ جاؤں۔ لمس سے ایک محبت، ایک گرماہٹ کا احساس دل میں جاگتا ہے، تحفظ کا احساس ہوتا ہے، بچے میں self esteem بڑھتی ہے۔ ایک اور ریسرچ کے مطابق hug اتنا لمبا ضرور ہو کہ آپ آرام سے دس تک گنتی گن سکیں۔ یہ بھی خیال رہے کہ دو زانو ہو کر بچے کے لیول پر آ کر اسکو گلے لگائیں تا کہ وہ بھی آپ کے گلے میں بازو ڈال کر آپ کو hug back کر سکے۔

آئی کانٹیکٹ:
آئی کانٹیکٹ کسی بھی رشتے میں‌ ازحد ضروری ہے اور سکرین کی وجہ سے بری طرح متاثر ہوا ہے۔ ہمیں خود تو برا لگتا ہے کہ شوہر ٹی وی کی طرف دیکھتے دیکھتے ہی جواب دیتے ہیں، ہم نظرانداز ہو رہے ہیں، لیکن وہی ہم ہانڈی میں چمچہ ہلاتے ہوئے بچوں سے بات کر رہے ہوتے ہیں، دور سے ہی سوال جواب چل رہے ہوتے ہیں۔ سارا دن تو ممکن نہیں لیکن اصول بنا لیں کہ رات کے کھانے پر ہر طرح کی سکرین آف ہو، یا سونے سے پہلے کچھ دیر آئی کانٹیکٹ کر کے دن بھر کی روداد شیئر کی جائے اور پھر بچوں سے بھی پوچھا جائے کہ کیسا دن گزرا۔

بوسہ لینا:
چھوٹے بچوں کو تو ہم بار بار گود میں اٹھاتے ہیں، بار بار پیار کرتے ہیں لیکن جیسے جیسے بچہ بڑا ہوتا جاتا ہے، ایک فاصلہ غیر محسوس طریقے سے حائل ہوتا جاتا ہے۔ اب کئی کئی دن اسکو بوسہ نہیں دیا جاتا۔ بظاہر نہ آپ کو کوئی تشنگی محسوس ہوتی ہے اور نہ انہیں لیکن کہیں نہ کہیں ایک کمی سی رہ جاتی ہے۔
 یہ کمی نہ رہنے دیں! بچے کو جب گلے لگائیں تو ماتھے پر پیار سے بوسہ دے دیں۔ اسے اچھا لگے گا۔ آپکو بھی اچھا لگے گا! 

محبت کسی بھی رشتے میں ہو، اظہار اور تجدیدِ اظہار مانگتی ہے۔ کتنی ہی بار ہم یہ شکوہ اپنے شوہر سے کرتے ہیں کہ آپ بدل گئے ہیں۔ اب آپ ویسے پیار نہیں کرتے جیسے شادی کے شروع میں کرتے تھے۔ زبان سے نہ کہیں تو بھی دل میں محسوس کرتے ہیں۔ 
لیکن بعینہ وہی سب بچوں کے ساتھ بھی کرتے ہیں۔ چھوٹے بچے کو چوم چوم کر اسکو تنگ کر دیتے ہیں، اور بڑے بچوں کے لئے ہمیں یاد ہی نہیں رہتا کہ محبت انکی بھی ضرورت ہے۔ اظہار کیوں نہیں کرتے؟ کیوں نہیں بتاتے اپنی اولاد کو کہ وہ ہماری زندگی کا محور ہے؟ ہماری خوشی اسکی مسکراہٹ سے مشروط ہے۔ اسکے چہرے پر ذرا سی پریشانی ہماری جان نکال دیتی ہے۔ وہ ہمیں ہر ایک سے زیادہ عزیز ہے۔ جب hug کریں تو دس تک گنتی گننے کی بجائے اسوقت انہیں ایک آدھا جملہ پیار سے بول دیں۔ پھر آئی کانٹیکٹ کر کے ماتھے پر بوسہ دیں اور پندرہ سیکنڈ میں آپکے تینوں "کام" ہو جائیں گے۔ 🙂 

جو لوگ اپنے بچوں کو جھپی نہیں ڈالتے، بوسہ دینے کی عادت نہیں، وہ ایک سے شروع کریں۔ جھجک آئے تو بھی کوشش کریں اور آہستہ آہستہ ڈوز بڑھاتے جائیں۔ آپکو فرق خود ہی محسوس ہو گا۔ محبت کا یہ اظہار روزانہ کی بنیاد پر اسلئے بھی اتنا اہم ہے کہ محبت ہم سبھی کی بنیادی ضرورت ہے۔ جب گھر سے نہیں ملتی تو کہیں اور ڈھونڈنی پڑتی ہے۔
 بہتر یہی ہے کہ ہماری اولاد کو گھر سے ہی اتنا پیار اور اعتماد ملے، انہیں محبت کے لئے کسی اور کی طرف نہ دیکھنا پڑے۔ آپکو نہیں معلوم کہ گھر سے باہر کی دنیا کا کوئی شخص انہیں محبت دے گا تو واپسی میں کیا ڈیمانڈ کرے گا۔ محتاط رہیں۔ وقت کی نزاکت کا خیال رکھیں۔

Saturday, 24 June 2023

#سوال👈کیا ہر عورت کو رومینٹک Husband اور ہر مرد کو رومینٹک بیگم کی ضرورت رہتی ہے۔


Husbandسوال👈کیا ہر عورت کو رومینٹک 

 اور ہر مرد کو رومینٹک بیگم کی ضرورت رہتی ہے۔


#جواب👈جی ہاں عورت ہو یا مرد سکون سے زندگی کی بھاگ دوڑ سمنبھالنے
 💕 حاضر دماغ رہنے💕 
 اپنی صلاحیتوں کو چمکانے 💕
 ٹھرک پن سے بچنے 💕
 گھر ، بچوں اور شوہر کو کوالٹی ٹائم دینے 💕
 بیوی بچوں اور اپنی جاب بزنس کو بہترین انداز میں مینیج کرنے 💕
 پر سکون نیند کیلئے 💕
 فریش رہنے اور اپنے روز مرہ کاموں میں دلچسپی اورسوچ کی مضبوطی کیلئے ہر عورت کو رومینٹک Husband  اور ہر مرد کو رومینٹک بیگم کی ضرورت رہتی ہے تاکہ من چاہی جنسی ضرورت پوری ہو سکے اور یہ ضرورت تاحیات رہتی ہے چاہے بڑھاپا ہی کیوں نہ ہو ۔ کوشش کیجئے اس رشتے کو تنگ نہ کیا جائے تاکہ پر سکون ذہن کے ساتھ زندگی کے مشکل سفر کو کچھ سکون سے کاٹ لیا جائے ناکہ غیر لوگوں سے اپنی اس خواہش کو پورا کرنے کے چکر میں نہ انسان اپنے قابل رہے اور نہ ہی دوسروں کو کوئی فائدہ پہنچا سکے کیونکہ یہیں ضرورت ہر مرد و عورت کی اشد ضرورت ہے کیونکہ ذہنی 
جسمانی سکون حلال رشتے سے ہی منسلک ہے چاہے ساری دنیا سے آنکھیں چار کر لی جائیں۔
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Wednesday, 21 June 2023

EID-UL-ADHA - QURBANI SCHEME-

 



Qurbani FAQ


Q.  What is Qurbani Eid?

Qurbani – what is it? Qurbani is the act of offering a sacrifice on Eid ul-Adha. It commemorates the supreme sacrifice offered by Prophet Ibrahim (AS) to show his total submission and gratitude towards Allah (SWT). It is also one of the compulsory acts of Hajj.

Once, our beloved Prophet (PBUH) was asked, what is Qurbani? The Prophet (PBUH) answered, ‘‘It is the Sunnah of your father Ibrahim (AS). For every hair of the Qurbani, you receive a reward from Allah (SWT).’’ [Al-Tirmidhi] 

Q. When is Qurbani 2023?

Qurbani 2023 is set to fall on Wednesday, 28 June; however, this is subject to the sighting of the moon.

Q.  Why do we have to give Qurbani?

The Holy Qur’an informs us that in a vision, Prophet Ibrahim (AS) saw that he offered his son Ismail (AS) in sacrifice to Allah (SWT). When he shared this vision with his son, Ismail (AS) said: "O my father! Do as you are commanded: you will find me, if Allah so wills, of the patient ones.’’ However, when Prophet Ibrahim (AS) carried out the commandment, Allah (SWT) replaced Ismail (AS) with a ram. 

To remember his incredible bravery and to emulate the piety and example of one of the greatest men of Islam, donating Qurbani is considered a highly rewardable act of worship, as demonstrated by Prophet Muhammad (PBUH).

Q. Where can I carry out my Qurbani? 

In Some situation it is very difficult to perform your own Qurbani. Therefore, it is permitted to arrange for Qurbani with the one who can take responsibility of the same.

In this case if you are in Bangalore you can Contact Manhaj Qurbani Schemes or call 98454 98354 for details.


Q.  How is Qurbani distributed?

It is recommended that the meat of the Qurbani sacrifice is shared equally in three parts between:

    • Family members of the person performing Qurbani,
    • Relatives and friends, and
    • The poor and most vulnerable.

        Q.  Why can't I choose which animal to sacrifice?

        Local customs and the type of animal that would be most suited to beneficiary needs plays a huge role in the selection of animals. Therefore, it would be difficult and not practical to allocate an animal according to your requirements.

        Q.  What animals are eligible for Qurbani? 

        The following animals can be sacrificed: goats, sheep, cattle, and camels. It is necessary that the following ruling applies; animals that are younger are not suitable for Qurbani:

          • Goat: one (full) year old, whether male or female.
          • Sheep (of any kind); no less than six months old. If it is six months and is strong and healthy, this will suffice for Qurbani. Otherwise, it will have to be one (full) year old.

                If an animal seller stipulates that the animal has reached the required age, and outwardly there is no sign to disprove it, then it is permissible to rely on this statement. No other type of animal is allowed for Qurbani. In addition, the animals should be in good health.

                Q. How much Qurbani do I need to give?

                Smaller animals, such as goats and sheep, account for one Qurbani share. Larger animals, such as Buffalo and camels, account for seven shares. You must give at least one share of Qurbani meat.


                Q.  When will Qurbani be carried out? 

                The days of Qurbani are the 10th, 11th and 12th of Dhul Hijjah. The first day is better than the second, and the second is better than the last. In towns, cities, and villages where Jumu'ah and Eid prayers are performed, Qurbani is not permissible before the Eid salah. However, you can and should order your Qurbani with Manhaj Qurbani Schemes (98454 98354) any time before Eid.

                We try our best to carry out the Qurbani on Eid day; however, this could extend to the 12th of Dhul Hijjah, where your Qurbani will definitely be fulfilled. 

                 Q. When do you give Qurbani?

                We recommend that you make your payment for Qurbani as soon as possible. You can make payments right up until the end of the second day after Eid (12th of Dhul-Hijjah) before Maghrib. The time for the Qurbani sacrifice begins after the Eid prayer on Eid ul-Adha and ends when the sun sets on the 12th of Dhul Hijjah, a total of three days of sacrifice.

                Q.  Who is Qurbani compulsory for?

                According to most Muslims, Qurbani is obligatory for every sane person that has wealth in excess of their needs. Normally, those who are eligible to pay Zakat tend to give a Qurbani - Nisab is the value of excess wealth, which makes a Muslim liable for Zakat.
                We can take your Qurbani order up until the sun sets on the 12th of Dhul Hijjah. After that, you may have to pay compensation for missing the obligation. Contact your local Imam for advice.    

                Q.  What is the difference between Qurbani and Udhiyah? 

                Essentially, there is no difference between the two terms. Udhiya is an Arabic word meaning "blood sacrifice", and Qurbani is an Urdu and Persian word derived from the Arabic word "Qurban", which means an act performed to seek Allah's (SWT) pleasure. Qurbani is far more popular among the Muslims of the India, Udhiyah is also used commonly in Kerala . 

                Q.  Do I need to do anything special if I intend to offer a sacrifice? 

                A person who intends to fulfil a Qurbani sacrifice should refrain from cutting their hair or nails or removing parts of the skin during the first 10 days of Dhul Hijjah.
                *Some believe that this applies to everyone who is making a sacrifice, and some say it is only for the people who are performing Hajj.*





                Monday, 10 April 2023

                Tahajjud - Fard vs Tahajjud

                FARD VS TAHAJJUD
                Do you know the differences between Fard (Obligatory) Prayers and Tahajjud Prayer?
                I never read a better explanation of the fadeelat of Tahajjud.
                *FARD PRAYERS CALLS are given in a Human voice by Mu'adhin, while the Tahajjud's call is given by Allããh Himself.
                *THE CALL FOR FARD PRAYER is heard by all human beings, while the call for Tahajjud is felt by a few selected ones.
                *CALL FOR FARD PRAYER says come for prayer come for prayer ( Hayya 'Alas-Salah.......), while call for Tahajjud says, “is there any seeker I give “( Hal min Sã'ilin, fa'u'tee)?
                Most of the Muslims pray obligatory Fard prayer, While tahajjud is performed by a selected few whom Allããh chooses.
                *IN FARD SALÃH, there is the possibility of Riyãu,(show off) which means it may be not purely for Allaah with Ikhlãs , but Tahajjud is prayed alone quietly -Only Allaah knows.
                *IN FARD SALÃT there is a greater possibility of distraction of mind, thought and heart as one frees himself from business of duniya, while in Tahajjud one is away from the routine tensions of duniya and is only thinking of Ãkhirat.
                *IN FARD SALAAT one May think of meeting some one in the masjid, but Tahajjud is about meeting and talking only to Allaah where you can share all your problems and ask for His mercy.
                *LASTLY, Tahajjud is purely a special Tawfeeq from Allaah, from whom He wants to listen and likes the crying and asking of Him.
                *GLAD TIDINGS FOR THOSE WHO HAVE THIS INVITATION EVERY NIGHT




                 

                Thursday, 23 March 2023

                RAMAZAN 2023

                Ya Allah, on this first day of the

                Blessed Month of Ramadan,

                Bless us with piety and make us

                steadfast on Tilawat of the Qur'an.

                Aamen.



                Friday, 27 January 2023

                Connect to Almighty

                Message of Friday
                🌸🌸🌸🌕🌸🌸🌸
                By Jameel Aahmed Milansaar
                27 Jan 2023.

                Pray to Allah, tell Him that thing you're struggling with so He can help, don't be embarrassed,
                He already knows what it is anyway. 

                When you have nothing left except Allah then you will find that Allah is always enough for you, Never give up making dua to Allah. It may not happen now, it may not happen next month but it will happen when Allah knows is best for you, Delay is not denial, Allah knows what's best for us and when it's best for us to have it. Supplicate to Allah with full trust.

                 *Many problems will be resolved quickly and smoothly when you take them to Allah in prayer, not to social networks.*

                📿it's jum'ah!
                Say Alhamdulillah.
                Make Lots Of Dua'aa
                Read Surat Al-Kahf 
                Send Lot Of Durood
                Upon The prophet ﷺ

                Monday, 16 January 2023

                The Grand Mosque - Kaaba

                The Grand Mosque of Mecca tops the list of the most expensive buildings on Earth built at a cost of $ 100 Billion.

                 Size: One million (1,000,000) square meters Capacity:

                 🕋Can accommodate two (2) million people
                 🕋Receives twenty (20) million visitors annually
                 🕋Open twenty -four (24) hours.It has never been completely closed in over 1400 years
                 🕋Has 1800 cleanersHas 40 electric sanitary cleaning cars
                 🕋Has 60 electric sanitary machines to clean open courtyards
                 🕋Has 2000 Sanitary barrels spread throughout the premises
                 🕋Floor covered with 40000 carpets (longer than the distance between Jeddah and Makkah (79km))

                 🕋13000 toilets, cleaned four (4) times/6 hours daily
                 🕋25000 water dispensers (one of the largest water dispensing systems in the world)
                 🕋100 random samples of drinking water are inspected daily
                 🕋Excess water from Zamzam Well is stored in storage tanks with a capacity of 1,700,000 (1.7 million), water bottles (capacity 10 liters)
                 🕋HARAMAIN recitation service: broadcast recitation of the Quran; 24/7; recitation using all ten (10) recognized methods of recitation of the Qur'an; more than 500,000 (half a million) episodes in 180 countries have been aired in three (3) years.
                 🕋More than 2,000 safety deposit boxes (to keep personal belongings safe)
                 🕋Hundreds of air conditioning units (for cooling) are scattered inside the Mosque.
                 🕋The floor of the Mosque reflects light and heat thus improving the regulation of heat in the premises.
                 🕋Electronic Tour guide application that can show the location of any part of the Mosque.
                 🕋Detailed and highly efficient audio system:
                 🕋The sound system in the Grand Mosque is one of the largest and most complex sound systems in the world,
                      Audio system error margin: 0%
                      6000 speakers
                      Four (4) different audio systems
                      Fifty (50) sound engineering personnel
                 🕋Copies of the Quran are translated into 65 different languages
                 🕋Translation of each Friday sermon into five (5) different languages

                 🕋Services/facilities for the disabled

                 🕋10,000 regular wheelchairs available for use, free of charge, 400 electronically guided wheelchairs available, Automatic wheelchairs (2 wheels and 3 wheels)

                 🕋RAMADAN special services

                 🕋4 million free meals for breaking fast every day, throughout Ramadan
                 🕋5,000,000 dates (seed discarded) are distributed in the mosque area every day during Ramadan
                 🕋After breaking fast, remove food and equipment to clean the place of Maghrib prayer (Salah) is done in just two (2) minutes only

                  SUBAHANALLAH ...

                Friday, 13 January 2023

                Message of Friday 13012023


                Turn to Allah before you return to Allah.
                A Muslim’s faith may become weak and he may be overwhelmed by his desires. The Shaytan may make sin attractive to him, so he wrongs himself (commits sin) and falls into that which Allah has forbidden.

                Every moment you live Be Aware that your life would be more meaningful and blissful when you start to turn and believe in Allah for every action you take.

                "O you who have believed, repent to Allah with sincere repentance"
                (Quran 66:8)

                📿it's jum'ah!
                Say Alhamdulillah.
                Make Lots Of Dua'aa
                Read Surat Al-Kahf 
                Send Lot Of Durood
                Upon The prophet ﷺ

                Monday, 21 November 2022

                CONVERSATION BETWEEN A MOTHER AND HER SON:

                .
                CONVERSATION BETWEEN A MOTHER AND HER SON:

                Mother:
                I fought with death when I was giving birth to you. I spent sleepless nights when you were sick and crying. I never ate without feeding you first. I bore so many pains to bring you to the stage that you are in today. How will you repay me my son?

                Son: 
                When I grow up, I will find a good job and earn lots of money for you so you can enjoy the pleasures of this world.

                Mother:
                Your father is doing this already and I do not expect this from you too. By the time you are earning I will be old and will not be in need of any worldly luxuries.

                Son:
                I will find a pious lady and marry her so she can cook for you and take care of you.

                Mother:
                That is not her duty my son and neither should you marry for that reason. It is not compulsory on her to do any service to me, neither do I expect this from her. Your marriage should be for you, a companion and a comfort for you as you go through this journey of life.

                Son:
                Tell me mother how can I repay you then?


                Mother:
                (With tears in her eyes) Visit or call me often. A mother only requires this much from you while she is alive. Then when I die give me your shoulder and bury me. Whenever you perform prayers, supplicate for me. Give out in charity for me. Remember your every good deed will benefit me in the hereafter so be good and kind always. Fulfill the rights of Allah SWT and all those around you. The sleepless nights and pains I took to bring you up was not a favour to you but was for my creator. He blessed me with you as a beautiful gift and as a means for me to attain His pleasure. Your every good deed becomes my repayment. Will you do it my son?

                Son:
                (Cannot speak and has tears in his eyes)
                May we all be of those that are a coolness of our parents eyes and a means of their purification.

                "Say My Lord be merciful to them as they brought me up in my childhood"
                (Surah Al-Israa)..

                Monday, 26 September 2022

                Renowned Islamic scholar Yusuf al-Qaradawi dies

                Renowned Islamic scholar Yusuf al-Qaradawi passed away.

                Prominent Muslim scholar Yusuf al-Qaradawi, the Egyptian-born head of the International Union of Muslim Scholars (IUMS), breathed his last on Monday, informed his official Twitter account.

                Qaradawi has published more than 120 books, including The Lawful and the Prohibited in Islam and Islam: The Future Civilization. He has also received eight international prizes for his contributions to Islamic scholarship, and is considered one of the most influential Islamic scholars living today.

                His influences include Ibn Taymiyya, Ibn Qayyim,Sayyid Rashid Rida,Hassan al-Banna, Abul Hasan Ali Hasani Nadwi, Abul A’la Maududi and Naeem Siddiqui.

                Qaradawi is best known for his programme ا”Sharia and Life” broadcast on Al Jazeera, which has an estimated audience of 40–60 million worldwide.



                 

                Friday, 19 August 2022

                What to read after each Namaz.

                These are 5 Surahs which we should try to read after each Salaah.

                · After Fajr read, Surah Yaseen-(Surah Number 36).

                · After Zuhr, read Surah Fatah-(Surah Number 48).

                · After Asr, read Surah Naba-(Surah Number 78).

                · After Maghrib, read Surah Waqiah-(Surah Number 56).

                · After Isha, read Surah Mulk-(Surah Number 67).



                Blessings of Surah Yaseen:
                Allah Ta'alah will solve your problems.

                Blessings of Surah Fatah:
                Allah Ta'alah will save you from evil and from Fitnah (corruption and misguidance).

                Blessings of Surah Naba:
                Allah Ta'alah will grant you with great knowledge and wisdom.

                Blessings of Surah Waqiah:
                Allah Ta'alah will grant prosperity in the business and you will never be in a situation where you are in hunger or in poverty.

                Blessings of Surah Mulk:
                Allah Ta'alah will save you from the punishment of the grave.


                We should all make an effort to read each of these Surahs after each Salaah. They don't take very long and are a great way for us to save ourselves from many trials and also gain Barakah and blessings in many areas of our daily lives.
                We should also try and remember to read Surah Kahf on Friday.

                Apart from the above mentioned benefit and blessing, each Surah has many more benefits. In Sha Allah, over the next few weeks, I will be writing posts regarding the Fadhaail and rewards of reading the above mentioned Surahs.


                May Allah give you and me the ability to read these Surahs so that we can gain reward and a place in Jannat-ul-Firdaus.



                Ameen.